Childhood and Stressors

Let me begin by saying I wouldn't trade my childhood for anything in the world. I give my past the credit for the woman, wife and mother that I am today. I will say as a child I pondered what it was like to be "normal" to not have "CHAOS". for me there was no set structure no routine that remained the same and no people that were always constant. I am the epitome of the "it takes a village" concept. From birth until 4th grade I lived in 9 different households, attended 6 different childcare centers and elementary schools and lived with multiple family members and caregivers. No house was the same, some apartments, one townhouse, and twon single family homes with many families in one. The rules that applied in one did not apply in the other, in some I was taken to school and picked up others I rode the bus. Some homes I was helped with homework and others it was left up to me. In some homes there was always an adult home with me and in others, well us children "watched" each other. My mother and father were not married, neither one was in every house I lived in and some occasions neither was there in the home at all physically. I was raised primarily by my father, my mother had a drug addiction for the majority of my childhood (fortunately for us this changed and we had a great relationship later) and I have had an aunt as my guardian since my birth. In some homes I was the only child in others there were up to 8 of us, CHAOS was my childhood to say the least. With this chaos, I attached to people as they attached to me. I had teachers that became outlets, they became my routine and sense of security. I have carried this attachment to my adulthood, one thing I do not do is take people for granted. If I find genuine, loyal, trustworthy people, they become my family and I will give them my all. I chose to use Haiti as the region I wanted to know more about concerning childhood and stressors. Upon my research I stumbled on "sexual assault" as a major benefactor to childhoos stress. In 2015 most of the 1,300 survivors of sexual violence who had been treated at one clinic run by Medecins Sans Frontieres, a medical charity in Haiti in the capital Port-au-Prince were younger than 25 and more than half of them were children (Maloney,2017). Most Haitians are said to be under the impressions that sexual abuse is an "American thing", sex is considered a taboo topic and often dismissed (Alcena,2016). This stressors can affect children in many ways, mentally it could lead to depression, social withdrawal and anxiety. Biosocially/Physically it could lead to children bodies not developing properly or parts of the body being damaged due to it being immature for intercourse. Cognitively children can behave aggressively have regulation difficulties and behavioral issues that cause them to not think and reason properly. Psychosocially sexual abuse can lead to a lack of confidence and insecurity. References: Alcena,B (2016, April 8). Hatian parenting: Between discipline and abuse. Woy Magazine. Moloney,A (2017, July 19). Sexual violence in Haiti is a public health problem: Charity Retrieved October 03,2020, from Reuters.com